BDSM Toy Tips for Beginners

Everyone’s got a wild side, but for many it lay dormant without a suitable outlet. If the bedroom is where you’d like to release the pressure valve on your wilder ways, make sure you’ve got the right tools to share by stocking your BDSM toy box with the following;

Blindfolds: Limiting or completely taking away one sense will amplify others, which is what makes a blindfold such a handy item to have in your romantic roster of intimate items. And while men are turned on mainly by what they see, women become more aroused by what they feel, so fellas, take note and try this trick; apply a blindfold to your girl during the ramp-up to lovemaking, and explain everything you’re doing in detail before you do it – it builds seriously titillating anticipation for what’s to come!

Top Tip: With your partner’s eyes blindfolded, feed them strawberries with cream or pitted cherries with chocolate sauce with your fingers, and let them anticipate what’s really for dessert!

Handcuffs: Restraining oneself from doing what your body tells you during sex seriously ups the intensity of enjoyment, and for the one not wearing them, handcuffs offers a change in the balance of power in the most pleasurable way.

Top Tip: Play upon the immobility of your partner by cuffing them to a bed post and teasing them with a soft touch from a down feather teaser and revel in their romantic writhing.

Whips: Contrary to the general image in most peoples’ minds, whips and whipping as part of BDSM play need not always be painful, though for some that is the entire point. Whipping can be done simply to impart a slight sting or type of touch that jolts because it’s so unusual in our day to day lives. A whip, like handcuffs, signifies control to the one wielding it, putting you in the driver’s seat for the pleasurable proceedings.

Top Tip: After giving a few firm strokes of the whip, gently blow on the area – the variation of touch will send their reception to touch into overdrive.

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