How much do YOU love your vibe?
The fear is more common than you might suppose; many people avoid buying vibrators, thinking that they may become addicted to it. Some think that they’ll enjoy it so much that the man in their life will become obsolete in terms of pleasure, while others have the fear that they’ll become desensitized from overuse.

While there’s no hard evidence out there proving or disproving either point, what we’ve got to offer is strictly anecdotal, but here it is nonetheless.

Consider this; an addiction is something that enslaves you to a habit to a point where it becomes a harmful force in your life and the lives of people around you – so when you put it that way, the idea of being addicted to one’s vibe seems kind of silly, right?

Can you get addicted to your vibe?
Short answer: Nope

Which is why the fear of ‘addiction’ actually stems from the idea that once someone tries a vibrator, it will be so good that any other sexual experience will pale in comparison – a valid concern, to be sure.

Because let’s face it; while a sex toy can resemble the male anatomy, a penis is made for reproduction first and pleasure second. A vibrator, however, has the stamina, shape and reach – not to mention vibrations – that make it optimized for orgasms.

But can it be good enough – so good, in fact – that you’d swear off men forever? A pretty laughable proposition, isn’t it?

Can your vibrator make you desensitized to pleasure?
Short answer: Heavens, no!

The notion of being desensitized by using your vibrator is founded, but not in the way you may think. Not desensitized in a sense that you’ll lose feeling in your lady bits (goodness no!), but that you become used to only one kind of pleasure.

This is why self pleasure in a variety of different ways is not only fun, but incredibly beneficial. Experimenting with clitoral stimulation as well as internal stimulation during masturbation is valuable for you to become more in touch with what you want, and when you’re playing with a partner you can be open to even more possibilities during foreplay and sex.

Variety is the spice of life, they say, and as long as you can choose between manual, automatic and partnered sexual satisfaction, you can be addicted to pleasure in all its forms.

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